How to Become a Pick Up Artist

This will instruct you on the best ways to go about becoming a Pick Up Artist (PUA) and some of the fastest ways to get there. Being a PUA is about being a man who's successful with women, and confident and comfortable with who he is.

Unknown to most, there is actually a group of pickup artists known as "the seduction community." This group is comprised of men and women of all skill levels ranging from pick up gurus to aspiring pickup artists--some have never even been on a date before! Anyone is welcome to join this supportive community where dating advice and tips are shared through forums. If you like, you can even receive professional coaching and dating advice to ensure you can enjoy success with women.

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Select a style of seduction to study. For example, some PUAs prefer attracting women at nightclubs and bars. Others, like Jeremy Soul, prefer Day Game, a method which allows you to meet and attract beautiful women at bookstores, coffee shops, shopping malls, etc. anywhere attractive women go during the day. Once you've become more skilled and feel that you at least have a firm grasp on that style, you may want to move on to another.

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Read books and articles on the subject. Neil Strauss' bestseller "The Game" is a good start, as well as the Mystery Method or 101 Essential Wingman Tips by Billy Conroy.

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Others may try to stop your learning by calling it "stupid" and saying that "it'll never work". From here, you have two choices. You can either convince them to join in your studies or you can just keep them in the dark.

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Keep trying the things you have learned from the books. Repetition is the best form of education.

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Set realistic goals. Be happy making small progress.

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Read books about human psychology, body language, and socializing.

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Do not be afraid of setbacks. Everyone has setbacks. Those who succeed are the ones that handle the setbacks better than others, so if you fall on your face, brush yourself off and try again.

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Confidence

A pick-up artist needs to be confident. There’s no chance of you controlling a potential sexual partner if you’re riddled with doubts and anxieties. You may have noticed that many well known pick-up artists resemble a walking bag of sadness that’s been sponsored by Gillette, but they don’t seem to care. And why not? Confidence, that’s why. There are many psychological approaches to improving your confidence, but the best way may be to exploit the Dunning-Kruger effect, which shows that less intelligent people are more confident and certain in their opinions and behaviour. The obvious solution, therefore, is to make yourself less intelligent. Stop thinking about anything beyond your own immediate needs or wants, ignore the views and input of others, and avoid exposing yourself to anything that might suggest you’re wrong in some way. Before you know it, you’ll have no idea why you shouldn’t be confident. 

This intelligence lowering can start whenever you like. If you read to the end of this piece and feel that it is helpful advice, then you’re well on your way.

Another Things : 

1. Take out the headphones when walking. Duh, you can’t interact with people when you’re blaring the new Strokes song. To be open to meeting people in public, you need to be ready to have an actual conversation with them.

2. After you speak to a girl on the street, plant your feet and don’t move. A little dramatic but it’s efficient. It makes you appear non-threatening and confident. Ladies, how many times have you been creeped out by some guy following you around and trying to get your number?

3. Use a more original line than “What are you doing today?” but still sound natural. If you have nothing else up your sleeve this is an OK line, but something funny or a comment about what’s going around you would be much more engaging. Don’t make the mistake of using a canned pickup line. Women hate those.

4. Ask who she is and what she does for fun. Everyone likes talking about themselves and this allows guys to come up with an innovative date she’ll love. That is, if she says yes.

5. Don’t be a douche. “I went to Harvard.  I work for Goldman. I live in a sick penthouse in SoHo.  I’m also an astronaut.” Yes! Barlie talked about the importance of not being a douche, defined as a man who is not paying attention to the woman he’s talking to — only how to impress her. Very important in a class about picking up women.

6. Don’t self-deprecate. Starting with something negative like, “I do consulting.  It’s really boring,” won’t get you where you want to go. How do you follow up when someone tells you how crappy their life is? It’s awkward.

7. Don’t go to dinner on your first date because the table sets up a physical barrier. This was one of the best tips. Dinner is great after you get to know someone a little better. A major physical barrier between you and your date can prevent the natural chemistry from bubbling up.

8. Be touchy throughout the date. Consider this a test of her physical interest.There’s nothing more awkward than that end-of-the-night moment when you’re both wondering if you should kiss. If you’re flirting and touching before then it alleviates the tension. But obviously, this touchiness should be well-received — if it’s not, stop.

I’m sure there are still plenty of guys who will embrace their inner douchebag when applying these techniques, but my guess is they already had latent asshole tendencies. Regardless, I learned that it is in fact possible to be a nice normal guy and a PUA. No excessive peacocking needed.

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