While you can't actually "make" anybody feel anything unless they want to, there are ways to encourage someone to become interested in you. With all the effort on your part, plus a good dose of self-belief and a willingness to go out on a limb, you just may find yourself attracting the girl of your dreams. Go on, go and get her with your positive, caring and calm attentiveness!
Part 1 of 3: Looking your best
1 : Pay attention to good grooming. It may seem pointless to go out looking nice or actually putting some effort in your appearance, but it will convince the girl that you've made an effort for her, which can cause her to feel special. If you go out wearing the same clothing that you did yesterday, it will appear that you don't care and might make her think that you're not actually interested or that you don't value her opinion enough.
2 : Smell good. While the guys might not be as affected by sweaty odors, girls notice them quickly. Wear deodorant and be clean. If you add a touch of cologne, just don't overdo it or it'll smell overpowering and she'll wonder why her own perfume stops being noticeable whenever you're about! The perfect amount of cologne will definitely make an impression.
Part 2 of 3: Keeping your cool
1 : Be confident but not cocky. Even though girls admire confidence, they don't like so much that you come across as self-absorbed and critical. Letting some of your inner nervousness and a little uncertainty show is sometimes good. Letting the girl know that she is making you nervous can leave her thinking about you longer, knowing that you're serious about liking her. She might ponder why you were nervous and remember how cute she thought you were. And coming across as cute is a good thing. Above all, remember that girls like guys who are confident in themselves through being able to show their real feelings.
2 : Try acting cool near her, but don't overdo it. Sometimes acting like you're tough towards someone else in front of her might make her think you're just a bully, and that might scare her off, or just turn her off.
Part 3 of 3: Getting her attention
1 : If you go out to a party and you want her attention make sure to give her your attention. Don't be creepy and stare her down, but make sure that you are giving a significant amount of attention to her, (unless she is obviously not interested then back off!). Talking to your buddies, and occasionally other girls is alright, but make sure that you're not over doing it with the attention to other girls. The last thing you want is for her to think you're a player, even if you are.
2: Start talking. Talking to girls can take guts, but it's something you're going to have to do to make a girl interested in you. Some key things to keep in mind when talking to her is to give her your full attention. Don't go looking around at other girls, or the room, or even your cell phone. If your friend comes over and starts talking to you tell them to wait because the girl you were talking to had been interrupted. This can leave the impression on her that you care, and you're not just pretending to listen. Which brings me to another key fact, you need to listen to what she is saying. Converse back to her with questions and comments on what she's saying. Even your opinion matters. The last thing you want to do is answer with just an, okay, or yeah, unless there is nothing else to say.
3: Show her she matters. Being the center of attention makes a person feel good. Try complimenting her, perhaps noticing her hair, the way she laughs a lot or something she has done that has impressed you.
Part 1 of 3: Looking your best
1 : Pay attention to good grooming. It may seem pointless to go out looking nice or actually putting some effort in your appearance, but it will convince the girl that you've made an effort for her, which can cause her to feel special. If you go out wearing the same clothing that you did yesterday, it will appear that you don't care and might make her think that you're not actually interested or that you don't value her opinion enough.
2 : Smell good. While the guys might not be as affected by sweaty odors, girls notice them quickly. Wear deodorant and be clean. If you add a touch of cologne, just don't overdo it or it'll smell overpowering and she'll wonder why her own perfume stops being noticeable whenever you're about! The perfect amount of cologne will definitely make an impression.
Part 2 of 3: Keeping your cool
1 : Be confident but not cocky. Even though girls admire confidence, they don't like so much that you come across as self-absorbed and critical. Letting some of your inner nervousness and a little uncertainty show is sometimes good. Letting the girl know that she is making you nervous can leave her thinking about you longer, knowing that you're serious about liking her. She might ponder why you were nervous and remember how cute she thought you were. And coming across as cute is a good thing. Above all, remember that girls like guys who are confident in themselves through being able to show their real feelings.
2 : Try acting cool near her, but don't overdo it. Sometimes acting like you're tough towards someone else in front of her might make her think you're just a bully, and that might scare her off, or just turn her off.
Part 3 of 3: Getting her attention
1 : If you go out to a party and you want her attention make sure to give her your attention. Don't be creepy and stare her down, but make sure that you are giving a significant amount of attention to her, (unless she is obviously not interested then back off!). Talking to your buddies, and occasionally other girls is alright, but make sure that you're not over doing it with the attention to other girls. The last thing you want is for her to think you're a player, even if you are.
2: Start talking. Talking to girls can take guts, but it's something you're going to have to do to make a girl interested in you. Some key things to keep in mind when talking to her is to give her your full attention. Don't go looking around at other girls, or the room, or even your cell phone. If your friend comes over and starts talking to you tell them to wait because the girl you were talking to had been interrupted. This can leave the impression on her that you care, and you're not just pretending to listen. Which brings me to another key fact, you need to listen to what she is saying. Converse back to her with questions and comments on what she's saying. Even your opinion matters. The last thing you want to do is answer with just an, okay, or yeah, unless there is nothing else to say.
3: Show her she matters. Being the center of attention makes a person feel good. Try complimenting her, perhaps noticing her hair, the way she laughs a lot or something she has done that has impressed you.
- Maintain eye contact when talking to her. This helps to reassure her that she is the center of your attention and lets her know you're actually listening.
4 : Be a positive force. Even if she says "yeah, you're nice, but not for me" and rejects you, remain upbeat. It may not be an outright "not interested", she may just be buying time to think, and by giving her space, she may come around to seeing things your way (but if she doesn't, just let it go––don't be a stalker). Or, it may be a total "no way, not ever" but she's fine to remain friends, which means that you can discover her friends, among whom may be someone else you grow to like and she'll speak nicely about you if you've remained positive.
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