“The Top 6 Ways To Deal With Fear Of Rejection ”

earn the Secret Reason Most Men Fail with Women and What You Can Do to Prevent Failure

By David DeAngelo

Did you know that just IMAGINING walking up to a woman and trying to get a date with her makes most men literally feel sick?

Their heart rate skyrockets and their breathing quickens. Thoughts of painful rejection fill their minds, and eventually the pressure becomes too much to bare.

Most of the time – and I’m talking about 99% of the time – most men find this state so scary that they give up before they even get started.

But here’s what you need to know:

There’s a HUGE DIFFERENCE between ACTUAL REJECTION and the FEAR OF REJECTION.

FEAR of rejection is actually FAR, FAR more painful and difficult to deal with than ACTUAL rejection. And the main reason for this is actually kind of comforting. And that is…

Men actually aren’t “rejected” very often!

Almost all of the time, when a man starts talking to a woman, she will be extremely nice about the whole situation. If she isn’t interested, she’ll at least be flattered, and usually say something like “I’m sorry, I have a boyfriend” or “You’re so sweet, but no thank you”.

Worst case: she’ll just walk away without saying anything at all.

But I can almost GUARANTEE this:

There’ll be no slaps. No boyfriends beating you up. No yelling. But here’s the kicker…

Most men will still experience an intense FEAR of rejection EVERY time they even consider approaching a woman.

Here are the top 6 ways you can deal with fear of rejection

FEAR of rejection is actually FAR, FAR more painful and difficult to deal with than ACTUAL rejection. And the main reason for this is actually kind of comforting. And that is…

1: STOP WORRYING.

If you get “rejected,” you’ll be fine. Really.

It’s no big deal. It doesn’t even happen that often. And when it does, you’ll recover shortly thereafter.

The REAL question is… “How do I deal with my IMAGINARY FEAR of rejection?”

Once you can overcome that, you’ll be on your way.

2: LEARN WHAT REJECTION REALLY IS

First of all, I do NOT consider a woman walking away – or just saying “No thank you” – to be “rejection”.

I define “rejection” as a woman doing something that lets you know she’s upset and offended. It’s when she responds in a mean or vicious way to make you go away… and that ALMOST NEVER HAPPENS!

3: STOP DOING STUPID THINGS

Some guys think it’s appropriate to walk up to a woman, put his arm around her and say, “Hey baby, you look hot tonight”.

Some guys don’t see anything wrong with following a woman around all night, staring at her constantly, then walking over with a nervous, sweaty-palmed, stalkerish look and saying, “You remind me of my sister”.

These are STUPID ideas. They INVITE REJECTION.

4: KNOW WHEN TO BAIL

Say two women are sitting alone at a table in the corner, and one of them is obviously upset. And then you walk over to them and say, “Hi, can I buy you a drink?”. And the upset one looks at you and says, “No thanks, we’re in the middle something” then looks tensely away…

…don’t keep pushing it.

The situation isn’t right, so just bail. STOP. Walk away.

If you don’t, you are a being dumb ass, and you don’t deserve to avoid rejection. You actually deserve to be slapped and have 47 drinks thrown in your lap.

5: DON’T CREEP HER OUT

If you start talking to a woman but your posture is weak and slumped, your eyes are darting but not meeting hers, and you’re wearing an unbuttoned flannel shirt with one of the tails tucked in, you’re probably not going avoid rejection.

If you creep a woman out in any way with how you carry yourself, things just plain aren’t going to work out for you.

6: PAY ATTENTION

When you start talking to a woman, she’ll let you know within a very short time if she’s receptive to talking to you.

She’s either going to ENGAGE you – keep talking to you in an open, comfortable way – or she won’t. She’s either going to act like things are cool, or she’s going to act like they’re not.

And that’s why you need to PAY CLOSE ATTENTION.

The fact is, most guys cause rejection THEMSELVES by not reading the signs and signals a woman puts out.

But learn to do that, and you’ll all but totally avoid rejection – and therefore overcome your imaginary FEAR of it.

Of course, once you’ve done all this and have the confidence to approach any woman, any time, without fear of rejection…

…that’s when the REAL work begins.

Once you’ve learned to deal with your fear of rejection, you’ll need to know how to start a conversation with a woman. You’ll need to know how to spark and build ATTRACTION to keep things going.

And lucky for you, gathering all of that information is something I’ve put a lot of time, effort and energy into for you.

In fact, I wrote an eBook called “Double Your Dating” that any guy can use to learn powerful techniques for SPARKING and BUILDING ATTRACTION to get actual DATES… all without any fear of rejection.

Want to learn how to deal with fear of rejection for good? Contact me ;)

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